Alexandra Mayers commentary: There is no doubt that the pornstar known as Bobbi Dylan is a beautiful young woman both internally and externally… From my perspective she’s a dead ringer for Liv Tyler… throw on top of that the fact that she’s into “off grid” living and has an adventurous spirit, she’s exactly the kind of girl that a vast demographic of American men would fall head over heals for very quickly (which is exactly what sex trafficking operations attached to the porn industry look for)…
Since Bobbi Dylan has made an appearance on the “adult entertainment” scene, she’s been perpetually surrounded by (or should I say stalked by) the absolute WRONG people…people who I can only deem as “predators”, that are actively working to isolate her from any valid support system that is available to her… and all in effort to pimp her illegally through escort / prostitution operations, such as The Luxury Companion, to the general public .
I took notice of Bobbi Dylan due to her favoriting a few of my tweets over the weekend. Upon looking at her twitter profile and most recent tweets, I noticed that she was looking for a model house to stay in for a pending trip to Florida. In addition, coincidentally, it turned out that at one point in time she was roommates with ex pornstar Serenity Haze (another young woman I reached out to not too long ago).
I decided to share with Bobbi that regardless of Serenity Haze’s negative & racist feelings towards Blacks (and me specifically), that she shouldn’t shift her perspective in regards to Serenity being a valid victim. I also decided to tell Bobbi that from my perspective (and past experience), when traveling out of state to work it’s better to get your own hotel room… as model houses are (more often than not) nothing but drama – but more importantly because after a long day on a porn set it’s important to have a private, quiet and safe place to be able to disconnect from the porn industry.
Below is the twitter exchange between Bobbi Dylan and myself (in order):
After tweeting with Bobbi, I decided to reach out to a close friend who manages a very well known, reputable and safe hotel in South Florida that’s part of a large chain. I told her about Bobbi’s situation and right away she told me to give Bobbi her direct number as she was willing to give her an 80% discount on a room at any of the hotels for the chain (that she could) for a maximum of 10 days. Unfortunately, I never was able to give Bobbi my friend’s number because upon logging back into Twitter to send her a message I discovered Bobbi had deleted all of her tweets to me and had blocked me.
The next morning I decided to research Bobbi Dylan a bit further. One of the first elements to the story of Bobbi’s time in the porn industry that I found was that The Luxury Companion (TLC) had posted a profile for her on their website and that her listing was labeled on their main page as “new”. Considering my extensive investigation into TLC and the recent DEATH of a pornstar (known as Alexis Grace) who was listed on The Luxury Companion, I immediately considered the possibility that the named owner and operator of TLC (a man by the name of Dwight Cunningham) had contacted Bobbi and threatened her due to her tweets to me.
A few hours later, the twitter account @FetCast followed me and asked if I’d direct message him. Below is the conversation (in order):
As you can see in the above conversation, the Twitter user @FetCast is affiliated with the adult “fetish” social network FetLife.com – In addition it appears as though @FetCast is attempting to speak for Bobbi Dylan in the manner that an agent, manager or even pimp would… I COULD be completely wrong about @FetLife’s intentions, maybe in his own misguided way he’s attempting to be supportive to Bobbi, however considering what @Fetcast is attached to it’s debatable.
Bobbi Dylan has tweeted extensively in regards to her experience with PORNSTAR TALENT AGENCIES. Please view her tweets about the agents she’s worked with at the end of this post.
The social network FetLife.com has been highly criticized due to their member’s lack of respect for consent, privacy & personal autonomy along with their member’s well documented history of silencing victims of abuse. In addition I have found that the social network FetLife.com allows members (if not at present, did at one time) to discuss sexual fantasies involving pedophilia, child abuse, besteality & rape.
My conversation with the twitter account @Fetcast (aka KingHulk on the FetLife social media platform) from my perspective felt like an instance of someone who’s seeking to control or manipulate Bobbi Dylan from afar and who’s attempting to halt any attention being drawn to the FACT that the man she met on Fetlife.com had psychologically (and possibly physically) abused her. From my perspective @Fetcast didn’t have Bobbi Dylan’s best interest in mind – only the interest of the @Fetcast podcast which is heavily dependent upon his maintaining a good relationship with the FetLife network.
Considering @Fetcast’s (aka KingHulk on FetLife.com) later tweets with a known verbally and psychologically abusive Twitter troll, bully and stalker, it’s fairly clear that he seeks to silence anyone who brings attention to his motives and the intention behind his actions (which is the typical pattern of a habitual predatory abuser).
It’s important that I note that @FetCast sent me an invite to the FetLife.com social network. After chatting with him on Twitter, I decided NOT accept his email invite or join the network at all (not even to view the alleged profile of @TheMightyFucks that @FetCast referenced directly to me).
Later that afternoon the man who Bobbi Dylan had been dating (who she MET on the social network Fetlife.com) known as @TheMightyFucks on twitter asked me to direct message him (though he’d blocked me the previous evening). @TheMightyFucks claims to have filed a restraining order against Bobbi Dylan and the alleged court date was Monday of this week. Below is the exchange between myself and @TheMightyFucks (take note of his mention of “Impact Play”):
My primary concern in regards to my conversation with @TheMightyFucks has to do with his mention of enjoying and being the dominant party in “Impact Play” – which translates to physically hurting another individual (in this case women who he’s considered his “girlfriends”). As many of you may remember, the War Machine vs. Christy Mack situation wasn’t too long ago… Considering that @TheMightyFucks has stated that he’s “suicidal” – that points to mental health issues which could easily lead him down a path that could result in a severe injury (if not death) of a young woman he might consider his “girlfriend”.
Since my discovery of Bobbi Dylan’s profile on The Luxury Companion, I have been painted by Twitter user @FetCast (along with other porn industry disinformation figures I’m familiar with) as having “victimized” Bobbi due to my bringing attention to her and this particular situation. I was told that a collage I put together was intended to “shame” her life. I’m highly offended by that statement and to take it further, I disagree technically considering that:
- The collage is nothing for her to be “ashamed” of, as it simply outlines what she is currently contending with in a supposedly “legal” industry.
- The collage is not “her life” in it’s entirety – it is an outline of a brief time and phase that CHOICES in her life has led her to (which is her time in the pornographic industry)
- The collage is a piece of media that will educate many young women as to what the truth of today’s pornographic industry is about and includes.
This post will likely be my final words in regards to Bobbi Dylan, just as my video in regards to Serenity Haze was (for the most part) my final say that particular situation. I do what I do because once upon a time I was an active pornstar & I feel certain young women could benefit from knowing my past experiences… however I do have my limits emotionally which is why I rarely write extensive blogs (such as this) nowadays. I am an individual who documents what I witness completely independently (and not for a profit). I am not associated with any organization or anti-porn entity.
I understand that certain people dislike posts such as this and even hate me for them, but I’d rather be hated for reasons that stem from good intention, than liked for the absolute WRONG reasons (which include turning a blind eye to or remaining silent about potentially deadly situations).
I genuinely pray for the best in regards to Bobbi Dylan. Every tweet that I sent her the initial night I made contact with her came directly from my heart. I believe she’s a very intelligent, talented, interesting and beautiful young woman who in time will find much success in life… However, I believe her ultimate success will be as the woman who CREATED “Bobbi Dylan” (just as Monica Foster‘s ultimate success came from the woman who CREATED her – Alexandra Mayers).
To those of you in the porn industry reading this who know me, and who understand the stance I’ve taken over the years (and why), please look out for Bobbi Dylan’s safety and treat her with kindness. The last thing that needs to happen is another War Machine type of situation.
Thank you and may God (hopefully via Jesus Christ) be a positive influence in ALL of your lives.